Remove the 3 Key Barriers Keeping You Stuck and Single
Imagine Having the Amazing Love You’ve Dreamed Of…
Imagine being able to clear all obstacles to finding your soulmate and having a wonderful, healthy, love-filled relationship!
This article is your road map to finding the love of your life. We are going to dive deep into the true, hidden blocks that have been keeping you from your soulmate. You are going to end up with amazing a-ha moments that will radically change your whole perspective on your search for love…
Who Am I to Be Helping You?
Before discussing your potential blocks to finding love, let me start by telling you a bit about myself.
For over 23 years, I have helped smart, loving people attract the spine-tingling and lasting love they longed for, even when they thought it wasn’t possible for them.
I have helped thousands of people find lasting love and have better relationships through one-on-one Soulmate Attracting Mentoring, as well as offering transformational programs, including the Single 2 Soulmate Breakthrough Program, the Self Love 2 Soul Mate program, and the Fearless Dating! program.
Also, I had my own many year journey to find love, so I know what it’s like to struggle, feel stuck, and even feel despair. I worked through my blocks so that I was able to have my happy ending and find the love of my life
I am happily married to a wonderful woman named Laura, and we have a love-filled, growthful, exciting relationship. I found the partner of my dreams, and it’s my passion to help you find yours in the shortest time possible!
Lesson 1 – The Inside Story: Why You Haven’t Found your Soulmate Yet
How long have you been looking for the love of your life? You know other people who have found their love, so why haven’t you? Is this some cruel stroke of fate, or is there an explanation for your troubles?
The good news is that there is an explanation for why you haven’t found your special Love yet, and it’s not your fault.
The reasons may seem a bit challenging at first, but the great news is that I will be sharing with you powerful and effective methods for overcoming all obstacles to finding your soulmate.
Let’s jump right in…
There are three key barriers to finding the love of your life:
- You are powerfully, subconsciously attracted to the wrong people.
- You have emotional blocks to being with the right person.
- You are not aligned with bringing your soulmate into your life.
One or more of these types of barriers may be the source of the problem. Often, it’s some of all three.
Being Powerfully, Subconsciously Attracted to the Wrong People
If you are attracted to the wrong people, then all of your time and energy will be wasted in painful, dead-end relationships.
This unhappy situation will obviously make it hard to find and be with your soulmate. So, what causes you to be attracted to the wrong people in the first place?
It Starts with Your Parents’ Traits…
As you grow up, you unconsciously form an image of your future partner based on the strongest traits of your parents, both good and bad. You will then be subconsciously attracted to people with similar traits.
This is not a problem for the good traits, but it can be a BIG problem for the bad ones!
For instance, let’s say that your father had a number of good traits, including intelligence, strength, humor and so on. However, he tended to be emotionally distant and unavailable.
A woman who grew up in this environment would tend to find intelligent, strong, humorous, and emotionally unavailable men the sexiest men on the planet! It’s all good except for that one fatal flaw. Sound familiar?
Similarly, if a man grew up with a warm, loving and giving mother who also happened to be insecure and needy, what kind of women might he be drawn to?
It is important to note that you are not limited to being attracted to the traits of the parent of the opposite sex.
Your subconscious image can be a combination of either or both parents, and we tend to be attracted to the negative trait(s) that we found most difficult or painful. Also, all of this applies whether you are straight or gay.
|Finding Love Exercise — Your Parents’ Negative TraitsThink about your parents’ worst negative traits. In fact, write them down.When you have the list of negative traits from both parents, see if there is any commonality with your past significant relationships. You may be surprised (even horrified).|
As long as you are strongly attracted to people with the negative traits of your parents, your relationships will be unsatisfying and unhappy, if not painful and doomed (or even traumatic).
Whew, that is a heavy statement, but you may already be having this exact experience. I was having a series of painful, doomed relationships until I was finally able to do something about it.
The good news is: I have a solution. Even if you’ve been struggling to find lasting love and intimacy for years, there’s a very good chance this article will help you to find a warm, caring and passionate mate to share your life with.
I would now like to share “Susan’s” story with you and how she broke free from her unhappy pattern of being attracted to the wrong men.
So far, we’ve talked about how common it is for us to be attracted to the wrong people with the worst negative traits of our parents.
Let me tell you about a woman who struggled her entire life to find a good man she could love and who would love her back. We’ll call her “Susan.”
It All Started When Susan Was a Child
“Mom was great, but she was stretched pretty thin” Susan told me. “She had a full-time job, took care of the house, both kids, and my father. I always felt that she loved me, but she didn’t have a lot of time for me.
“I really admired my Dad. He was a professor and worked very hard. On weeknights, he usually came home late and tired. He would first want to relax, read the paper and watch the news. Then he would hole up in his office and work on writing his articles. It was Mom who put us to bed.
“On weekends, he would sometimes play in the backyard with us. I remember him picking me up and swinging me around while I giggled and screamed. He would joke around and act silly and make us laugh.
“I loved those moments, but they were so short and infrequent. He had so many other interests.
“Often when I was little I would ask my Daddy to come play with me, but he would usually say ‘Not now, honey. Maybe later.’
I loved my father so much, but I always longed to have more of his love and attention.”
One Painful Disappointment After Another
Susan had a very frustrating love life. “I would meet these men who were smart, funny and playful, but I always felt like I came in second (or third or fourth!) to my boyfriends’ other interests” she told me.
“The men I got involved with never wanted to be with me as much as I wanted to be with them. I always felt so unloved!”
Along Came Robert
After many heartbreaking relationships, she finally met a very different kind of man. We’ll call him “Robert.”
“When we first started dating, we would go on these incredibly romantic walks in the woods, holding hands like teenagers” she told me. “I would pack a picnic lunch, and we would fall asleep under a huge oak tree.
“Robert had everything I was looking for in a man. He was smart, funny, playful, and my heart melted just to look at him.
“But what I loved most about Robert was how much he wanted to be with me and how romantic and loving he was! Our relationship felt magical, and I couldn’t believe how lucky I was to be with a guy like him!”
Susan and Robert got together several times a week and would often go on romantic getaways on weekends. After being together several months, Susan felt like she had finally found the man of her dreams.
And Then Something Changed…
One Friday Susan excitedly called Robert to plan a fun adventure together. “How about we take a trip to Martha’s Vinyard this weekend? It would be so yummy to stay at a B&B, ride our bicycles around the island, and visit the quaint shops.”
“I really wish I could, but my top client dropped a bomb on me today, and I’m going to have to spend most of the weekend trying to get his work done for Monday. Maybe we could go to Martha’s Vinyard next weekend?”
Susan got very hurt and accused Robert, “Your work is more important than me!”
Robert felt very bad about this and bent over backwards to reassure Susan that, of course, he loved her more than his work.
After a half hour of reassurances, kisses and tears, Susan felt better, but Robert was left feeling uncomfortable. Susan hadn’t been very understanding of his work situation, and he felt unfairly accused.
Robert’s feelings of discomfort faded over the next few days but still lingered in the background. When they got together, he seemed just a bit distracted and not quite as affectionate as before.
Susan started feeling more and more anxious. “After a while I just started snapping at him for no reason.” Susan said. “I couldn’t seem to stop myself, and things got worse and worse.”
As time went on Robert became less available for weekend adventures together, and he seemed more and more reserved and distant.
“I don’t know what happened. In the beginning, things were so perfect, and then Robert started acting just like all of my past boyfriends!” Susan sobbed. “I can’t believe that I’m back in the same place again! Please help!”
So, What Became of Susan and Robert?
What happened to Susan and Robert’s wonderful relationship? Things started out so well in the beginning, but now they seem to be on a dangerous downward slide.
Were Susan and Robert able to pull things back together?
Stay tuned for the rest of the story…